What does it cost to participate?

Nothing. Access to Substack articles and participation in groups are both free. This ensures the same resource is open to men of all socio-economic groups. We are financially supported through paid Substack subscriptions and individual donations.

Is Union Lodge therapy?

No. It’s base level support through community, led by professionals (many of whom are therapists). It’s meant to provide men with tools (psycho-education) and connection so that they have a foundation to pursue their own health. Should men choose to explore deeper individual work in therapy we can help them find a good fit.

Is Union Lodge religious?

No. We’re not affiliated with any organized religion and do not promote any particular faith. But we do have existential conversations and we value honest spiritual reflection. Those conversations can also lead to discussion about the experiences men have in faith communities, both positive and negative. In short, we don’t avoid discussion of religion, but we don’t push it either.

Is Union Lodge political?

No. Similar to the answer above about religion, we do not exist to promote a particular political ideology. But we do have honest conversations about culture and what it means to live out our values. Those conversations often have a political dimension. We simply ask men to be respectful and curious.

Is there LGBTQ representation in Union Lodge?

Yes. We have gay men and trans men who are regular participants and we welcome their unique perspectives in our ongoing conversation about masculinity. Again, we ask all participants to be respectful and curious.

Have you ever kicked anyone out of a meeting?

Not yet. We have an awesome community of guys. But we reserve the right to ask participants to leave if they insist on being disrespectful, disruptive, or combative. Just be cool.

What’s with the name?

The term Union evokes a sense of wholeness, the opposite of being fractured. It also relates to relational connection and mutual support. Lodge is a nod to the fraternal orders and places men have gathered for centuries.