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August 9, 2026
Our 'Necessary Wounding' and The Pursuit of Masculinity Beyond Self-Protection
August 9, 2026

Is it possible to navigate an unsafe world and remain open?

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August 9, 2026
July 25, 2026
When’s the last time I changed my mind (and what can I learn from it)?
July 25, 2026

Are we really as rational as we think? What motivates us to choose a position and defend it? What frees us to choose a different one?

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July 25, 2026
July 11, 2026
Amor Fati
July 11, 2026

Is acceptance of suffering, injustice, and disappointment a good thing? How do cultural factors impact our relationship to that question and what can we learn from others?

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July 11, 2026
June 26, 2026
Jacques Lacan, Desire, and the Myth of Fulfillment
June 26, 2026

What if the things you want most don’t actually reside in your own heart of hearts? Jacques Lacan’s radical psychology challenges us to see what happens when we stop trying to fix the permanent 'lack' inside us.

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June 26, 2026
June 13, 2026
Maslow and Self-Actualization vs. Self-Transcendence
June 13, 2026

Later in his life, Abraham Maslow revised his famous hierarchy of needs to include self-transcendence above self-actualization. What does that mean for our vision a life well-lived?

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June 13, 2026
May 30, 2026
Relational Cutoff and Repair
May 30, 2026

How do we understand and deal with family estrangement, relational cutoff, and the general sense of separation we experience with others?

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May 30, 2026
May 16, 2026
Processing Regret, Loss, and Disappointment in Life
May 16, 2026

It is extremely common for men, particularly in mid-life, to be overwhelmed by guilt and regret as they take stock of their lives. How do we keep it from swallowing us so that we can move forward?

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May 16, 2026
April 25, 2026
What are we talking about when we talk about loneliness? (And what are we going to do about it?)
April 25, 2026

Let’s talk about the “male loneliness epidemic”, starting with how we experience loneliness and isolation (are they the same thing?) and how we address it in our own lives.

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April 25, 2026
April 11, 2026
How We Talk About “Patriarchy” According to Bell Hooks
April 11, 2026

A summarization of the main ideas in The Will to Change by Bell Hooks, meant to drive reflection on how we think about, and discuss, the concept of “patriarchy”.

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April 11, 2026
March 28, 2026
Iain McGilchrist’s “Attention is a Moral Act”
March 28, 2026

Intro to the theories of British psychiatrist, philosopher and neuroscientist, Iain McGilchrist, centered on how the kind of attention we pay to the world ends up shaping the world.

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March 28, 2026
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March 1, 2026
Window of Tolerance
March 1, 2026

A helpful construct for visualizing our internal states, giving us a sense of how we can get back to self-regulation.

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March 1, 2026
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February 27, 2026
Emotional Vocabulary
February 27, 2026

Some tools and strategies for gaining a more robust vocabulary to describe our emotions, and why that’s important.

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February 27, 2026
February 14, 2026
Emotional Intelligence
February 14, 2026

The critical role emotions play, why denying them dooms men to immaturity, and how we can gain greater awareness.

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February 14, 2026
January 21, 2026
James Hollis’s Concept of “Provisional Selves”
January 21, 2026

Jungian psychoanalyst James Hollis’s idea of the temporary functional expressions of self we wear, and whether there’s a truer Self underneath.

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January 21, 2026
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December 20, 2025
Intro to Genograms
December 20, 2025

An overview of the development and use of Genograms, including a multi-step guide.

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December 20, 2025
November 22, 2025
The Eight Concepts of Bowen Family Systems Theory
November 22, 2025

A broad overview of the development of systems theories in psychology.

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November 22, 2025
November 9, 2025
Systems Theory in Psychology
November 9, 2025

A broad overview of the development of systems theories in psychology.

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November 9, 2025
October 19, 2025
Attachment Theory
October 19, 2025

A foundational look at the theory behind secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment patterns, taken from Sue Johnson’s Attachment Theory in Practice.

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October 19, 2025
October 5, 2025
Existential Therapy: Meaning
October 5, 2025

The fourth of Irvin Yalom’s “Four Main Concerns”, summarized from his book Existential Psychotherapy.

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October 5, 2025