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May 16, 2026
Processing Regret, Loss, and Disappointment in Life
May 16, 2026

It is extremely common for men, particularly in mid-life, to be overwhelmed by guilt and regret as they take stock of their lives. How do we keep it from swallowing us so that we can move forward?

May 16, 2026
April 25, 2026
What are we talking about when we talk about loneliness? (And what are we going to do about it?)
April 25, 2026

Let’s talk about the “male loneliness epidemic”, starting with how we experience loneliness and isolation (are they the same thing?) and how we address it in our own lives.

April 25, 2026
April 11, 2026
How We Talk About “Patriarchy” According to Bell Hooks
April 11, 2026

A summarization of the main ideas in The Will to Change by Bell Hooks, meant to drive reflection on how we think about, and discuss, the concept of “patriarchy”.

April 11, 2026
March 28, 2026
Iain McGilchrist’s “Attention is a Moral Act”
March 28, 2026

Intro to the theories of British psychiatrist, philosopher and neuroscientist, Iain McGilchrist, centered on how the kind of attention we pay to the world ends up shaping the world.

March 28, 2026
March 1, 2026
Window of Tolerance
March 1, 2026

A helpful construct for visualizing our internal states, giving us a sense of how we can get back to self-regulation.

March 1, 2026
February 27, 2026
Emotional Vocabulary
February 27, 2026

Some tools and strategies for gaining a more robust vocabulary to describe our emotions, and why that’s important.

February 27, 2026
February 14, 2026
Emotional Intelligence
February 14, 2026

The critical role emotions play, why denying them dooms men to immaturity, and how we can gain greater awareness.

February 14, 2026
January 21, 2026
James Hollis’s Concept of “Provisional Selves”
January 21, 2026

Jungian psychoanalyst James Hollis’s idea of the temporary functional expressions of self we wear, and whether there’s a truer Self underneath.

January 21, 2026
December 20, 2025
Intro to Genograms
December 20, 2025

An overview of the development and use of Genograms, including a multi-step guide.

December 20, 2025
November 22, 2025
The Eight Concepts of Bowen Family Systems Theory
November 22, 2025

A broad overview of the development of systems theories in psychology.

November 22, 2025
November 9, 2025
Systems Theory in Psychology
November 9, 2025

A broad overview of the development of systems theories in psychology.

November 9, 2025
October 19, 2025
Attachment Theory
October 19, 2025

A foundational look at the theory behind secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment patterns, taken from Sue Johnson’s Attachment Theory in Practice.

October 19, 2025
October 5, 2025
Existential Therapy: Meaning
October 5, 2025

The fourth of Irvin Yalom’s “Four Main Concerns”, summarized from his book Existential Psychotherapy.

October 5, 2025
September 14, 2025
Existential Therapy: Isolation
September 14, 2025

The third of Irvin Yalom’s “Four Main Concerns”, summarized from his book Existential Psychotherapy.

September 14, 2025
August 31, 2025
Existential Therapy: Freedom
August 31, 2025

The second of Irvin Yalom’s “Four Main Concerns”, summarized from his book Existential Psychotherapy.

August 31, 2025
August 17, 2025
Existential Therapy: Death
August 17, 2025

The first of Irvin Yalom’s “Four Main Concerns”, summarized from his book Existential Psychotherapy.

August 17, 2025